{"id":930,"date":"2025-08-08T22:35:46","date_gmt":"2025-08-08T20:35:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/?p=930"},"modified":"2025-08-08T22:36:30","modified_gmt":"2025-08-08T20:36:30","slug":"proc-miluju-svoje-deti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/?p=930","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d miluju svoje d\u011bti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vezmu to popo\u0159\u00e1dku. Jednoho po druh\u00e9m… Pro\u010d miluju sv\u00e9ho syna Olivera? Proto\u017ee je state\u010dn\u00fd. Proto\u017ee je schopn\u00fd, pracovit\u00fd a d\u016fsledn\u00fd. Je \u0161t\u011bdr\u00fd. Proto\u017ee m\u00e1 nad\u010dasov\u00e9 n\u00e1pady a neboj\u00ed se je realizovat. Proto\u017ee je diplomat. Proto\u017ee um\u00ed uchovat tajemstv\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Oliver hled\u00ed na Prahu, proto\u017ee by ji celou r\u00e1d opravil… \ud83d\ude42<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1m si na za\u010d\u00e1tek t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed. Byla jsem jednozna\u010dn\u011b nezral\u00e1 na mate\u0159stv\u00ed. Nech\u00e1pala jsem, co se to vlastn\u011b d\u011bje, \u017ee p\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00edm na sv\u011bt nov\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka. V\u017edycky jsem byla potrhl\u00e1, rozt\u011bkan\u00e1, nesoust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00e1. Snad jsem to ani nebrala v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. O to v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed nastalo, kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b skute\u010dn\u011b narodilo. Bezradn\u011b jsem ho dr\u017eela v n\u00e1ru\u010di. Psal se rok 1991. Divok\u00e1, neukotven\u00e1 l\u00e9ta. Nem\u011bla jsem \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 velk\u00e9 z\u00e1zem\u00ed. Podn\u00e1jem v podkrov\u00ed jednoho star\u00e9ho domu na okraji Prahy. Syn plakal od r\u00e1na do ve\u010dera. Vy\u010d\u00edtav\u011b se na m\u011b d\u00edval. Kam jsi m\u011b to p\u0159ivedla? Trvalo pom\u011brn\u011b dlouho ne\u017e jsem si zvykla, \u017ee u\u017e nav\u017edy budu m\u00e1ma. A\u0165 se stane, co se stane. Po dlouhat\u00e1nsk\u00fdch t\u00fddnech se kone\u010dn\u011b dostavila radost. Oliver se toti\u017e kone\u010dn\u011b usm\u00e1l. Anebo jsem si toho sp\u00ed\u0161 kone\u010dn\u011b v\u0161imla. Praskly obru\u010de, kter\u00e9 m\u011b t\u00edsnily a od t\u00e9 chv\u00edle jsem si u\u017e\u00edvala toho, \u017ee m\u00e1m kouzeln\u00e9ho chlape\u010dka. Kr\u00e1sn\u00e9ho, \u0161ikovn\u00e9ho, neboj\u00e1cn\u00e9ho. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Oliver byl prakticky jedin\u00fd, kter\u00fd souhlasil, abych si koupila starou \u0161kolu v M\u011b\u010d\u00edn\u011b.
„Mami, tady ti postav\u00edm pomn\u00edk, “ \u0159ekl \ud83d\ude42<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Odmali\u010dka jsem na n\u011bho kladla vysok\u00e9 n\u00e1roky. Dob\u011bhni, kup, pohl\u00eddej, za\u0159i\u010f. Brzy mu toti\u017e do \u017eivota vstoupily dv\u011b mlad\u0161\u00ed s\u00e9gry… Oliver se na\u0161el v pom\u011brn\u011b origin\u00e1ln\u00edm povol\u00e1n\u00ed. Vyu\u010dil se um\u011bleck\u00fdm \u0161tukat\u00e9rem a jednoho dne prohl\u00e1sil: Budu podnikat. Jsem nejlep\u0161\u00ed. Ani m\u011b nenapadlo mu to rozmlouvat, netu\u0161ila jsem, co t\u00edm vlastn\u011b mysl\u00ed. Jak se m\u016f\u017ee podnikat v oboru um\u011bleck\u00e9 \u0161tukat\u00e9rstv\u00ed? Dnes u\u017e to ch\u00e1pu. Oliver zalo\u017eil firmu doslova na koleni. Bez kapit\u00e1lu, bez z\u00e1zem\u00ed. Stovky hodin na le\u0161en\u00ed, zni\u010den\u00e9 ruce, v\u00e1pno v o\u010d\u00edch. P\u0159esto pronikl \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011b mezi elitu. Logicky za to dost\u00e1val r\u00e1ny. N\u011bkter\u00e9 byly skute\u010dn\u011b pod p\u00e1s. Nelekl se. State\u010dn\u011b se rval. A vlastn\u011b zv\u00edt\u011bzil. Dnes jsou za n\u00edm des\u00edtky n\u00e1dhern\u011b opraven\u00fdch dom\u016f, ba i z\u00e1mk\u016f. Nech\u00e1pu jak to dok\u00e1zal, vymkl se zcela m\u00e9 kontrole… \ud83d\ude42 Oliver je otcem dnes \u010dty\u0159let\u00e9ho kluka Bruna, kter\u00fd sv\u00e9ho t\u00e1tu nezap\u0159e… N\u00e1dhera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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M\u00e1\u0159\u00ed je cel\u00e1 moje m\u00e1ma Marie Vejvan\u010dick\u00e1\/\u0160atoplechov\u00e1, v\u00edce o n\u00ed v knize Ibka<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dva roky po synovi se narodila miniaturn\u00ed hol\u010di\u010dka, kter\u00e9 jsme za\u010dali t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 hned \u0159\u00edkat M\u00e1\u0159\u00ed. M\u011bla obrovsk\u00e1 kukadla a huben\u00e9 ru\u010dky, kter\u00e9 j\u00ed tr\u010dely z pe\u0159inky. Snad proto, \u017ee tehdy v noci jsme se se\u0161ly na pokoji \u010dty\u0159i maminky podobn\u00e9 n\u00e1tury, sm\u00e1ly jsme se na\u0161im porod\u016fm tak, \u017ee n\u00e1s do r\u00e1na p\u0159i\u0161ly umrav\u0148ovat dv\u011b sest\u0159i\u010dky a nakonec i l\u00e9ka\u0159. V obav\u011b, \u017ee si na d\u00edt\u011b budu zase t\u011b\u017ece zvykat, jsem ji od prvn\u00edho okam\u017eiku tolikr\u00e1t pusinkovala a hladila, \u017ee se za\u010dala velmi brzy nep\u0159\u00ed\u010detn\u011b sm\u00e1t. Hih\u0148ala se od r\u00e1na do ve\u010dera. Po\u0161\u0165uchovala br\u00e1chu a pozd\u011bji si vym\u00fd\u0161lela nehor\u00e1zn\u00e9 nesmysly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vesel\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b z abstraktn\u00edmi n\u00e1pady<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Miluju ji p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm proto, \u017ee m\u00e1 obrovskou fantazii, p\u0159ekvapiv\u00fd smysl pro po\u0159\u00e1dek, je nesm\u00edrn\u011b d\u016fsledn\u00e1, kreativn\u00ed a absolutn\u011b ne\u00faplatn\u00e1. Jako jedin\u00e1 z m\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed nikdy neschytala pohlavek, proto\u017ee v\u017edy, kdy\u017e se to bl\u00ed\u017eilo, vykulila o\u010di a vyk\u0159ikla: „Maminko, j\u00e1 jsem smutn\u00e1!“ To matku, i roz\u010dilenou, spolehliv\u011b odzbroj\u00ed…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00e1\u0159\u00ed byla dlouho nevyhran\u011bn\u00e1, jako mal\u00e1 poskakovala, tan\u010dila, malovala si a vypr\u00e1v\u011bla fantaskn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 ji za pochodu napadaly. M\u011bla ve \u0161koln\u00ed ta\u0161ce v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1dek ne\u017e jej\u00ed star\u0161\u00ed br\u00e1cha, ale nijak v\u00fdrazn\u00fd studijn\u00ed typ to nebyl. Nakonec \u0161la v\u00fdtvarn\u00fdm sm\u011brem a tento obor vystudovala na st\u0159edn\u00ed odborn\u00e9 \u0161kole v Praze. Ale jej\u00ed nev\u00e1zanost ji p\u0159ivedla do n\u011bkolika r\u016fzn\u00fdch zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed. Ve v\u0161ech si ji nemohli vynachv\u00e1lit pro jej\u00ed pe\u010dlivost, d\u016fslednost a pracovitost. Dnes je n\u00e1dhernou pe\u010dlivou maminkou a sv\u011bte div se, zam\u00ed\u0159ila z Prahy do M\u011b\u010d\u00edna, aby si vzala zdej\u0161\u00edho mlad\u00edka, o kter\u00e9ho tu do slova a do p\u00edsmene zakopla u m\u011b ve star\u00e9 \u0161kole. Nesta\u010d\u00edm se divit, co z tak rozvern\u00e9 upov\u00eddan\u00e9 hol\u010di\u010dky vyrostlo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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chlape\u010dek Sebastien si maminku vybral dob\u0159e!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Jestli se na n\u011bjak\u00e9m d\u00edt\u011bti poznalo, \u017ee bude studijn\u00ed typ, bylo to moje t\u0159et\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, dcera Johanka. Odmali\u010dka byla zv\u00eddav\u00e1. Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1m si, jak se mnou v p\u011bti letech prob\u00edrala Vesm\u00edr. Je to tak divn\u00fd, mami! Tak divn\u00fd! lamentovala. Narodila se, kdy\u017e do konce minul\u00e9ho stolet\u00ed zb\u00fdvaly dva roky. Z mnoha d\u016fvod\u016f jsme prvn\u00ed dva roky jej\u00edho \u017eivota bydleli v Sob\u011bslavi. Krok do nezn\u00e1ma n\u00e1m p\u0159ivedl do sv\u011bta dobr\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1tele, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1m z\u016fstali dodnes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Osmilet\u00e1 Johanka, mazliv\u00e1 jako kot\u011b<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Johanka byla klasick\u00e9 \u0161kolkov\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b: od 6 hod r\u00e1no do 18 hod ve\u010der. \u010casto ji vyzved\u00e1val desetilet\u00fd br\u00e1cha. Jinak to ne\u0161lo. Otcov\u00e9 d\u011bt\u00ed se vypa\u0159ili a my z\u016fstali sami. Nastal skute\u010dn\u00fd boj o pen\u00edze. R\u00e1no jsem chodila ukl\u00edzet, pak do norm\u00e1ln\u00ed pr\u00e1ce, ve\u010der \u017eehlit ko\u0161ile skv\u011bl\u00fdm p\u00e1n\u016fm: spisovateli Benjaminovi Kurasovi a jeho kolegovi Ivanovi Bielovi, kte\u0159\u00ed se vr\u00e1tili z emigrace a platit si slu\u017eku na \u017eehlen\u00ed ko\u0161il pro n\u011b bylo samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed. D\u00edky nim jsem objevila dal\u0161\u00ed obzory a zejm\u00e9na jsem byla podpo\u0159ena v tom, a\u0165 p\u00ed\u0161u! A tak za\u010daly p\u0159ich\u00e1zet na sv\u011bt moje knihy…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dvan\u00e1ctilet\u00e1 Johanka. Chytr\u00e1 jako opice.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Johanku miluju proto, \u017ee je moudr\u00e1, ohledupln\u00e1, citliv\u00e1, ambici\u00f3zn\u00ed a zv\u00eddav\u00e1. Jako jedin\u00e1 z m\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed \u0161kolu pro\u017e\u00edvala. Pastelky m\u011bla o\u0159ezan\u00e9, se\u0161ity obalen\u00e9, v\u011bty barevn\u011b pod\u0161krtan\u00e9. U\u010dila se. Cht\u011bla vyzkou\u0161et. Nutila m\u011b se d\u00edvat do \u017e\u00e1kovsk\u00e9 a podepisovat jedni\u010dky. Kdykoli jsem ji p\u0159i dom\u00e1c\u00edm zkou\u0161en\u00ed upozornila na chybu, let\u011bla do u\u010debnice, aby zkontrolovala, kdo m\u00e1 pravdu. V p\u00e1t\u00e9 t\u0159\u00edd\u011b si vymyslela, \u017ee p\u016fjde studovat francouz\u0161tinu. Skute\u010dn\u011b ud\u011blala zkou\u0161ky do presti\u017en\u00edho Gymn\u00e1zia Jana Nerudy v Praze. Bez probl\u00e9m\u016f se dostala na vysokou. Je obdivuhodn\u00e9, jak se dok\u00e1\u017ee koncentrovat a dos\u00e1hnout sv\u00e9ho c\u00edle. Jej\u00ed bakal\u00e1\u0159ce ani diplomce jsem vlastn\u011b nerozum\u011bla… \ud83d\ude42 Jej\u00ed zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed je pro m\u011b taky nepochopiteln\u00e9, jsem zkr\u00e1tka p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 konzervativn\u00ed a sou\u010dasn\u00fd trh pr\u00e1ce je pro m\u011b \u0161pan\u011blskou vesnic\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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M\u016fj t\u00e1ta by m\u011bl z Johanky taky velkou radost. I on promoval na Karlov\u011b univerzit\u011b.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Moje d\u011bti to nem\u011bly lehk\u00e9 a v\u0161echno zvl\u00e1dly. Fand\u00edm jim ve v\u0161em, co d\u011blaj\u00ed. V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee jim um\u00edm b\u00fdt oporou a jsem vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1, \u017ee ch\u00e1pou v\u0161echny moje \u00falety. Miluju je z cel\u00e9ho srdce. Chci, aby to v\u011bd\u011bly nejen ony, ale vy v\u0161ichni. A proto jsem r\u00e1da, \u017ee to m\u016f\u017eu t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem sd\u011blit cel\u00e9mu Vesm\u00edru.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Vezmu to popo\u0159\u00e1dku. Jednoho po druh\u00e9m… Pro\u010d miluju sv\u00e9ho syna Olivera? Proto\u017ee je state\u010dn\u00fd. Proto\u017ee je schopn\u00fd, pracovit\u00fd a d\u016fsledn\u00fd. Je \u0161t\u011bdr\u00fd. Proto\u017ee m\u00e1...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":941,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-930","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-o-mne"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/462554597_536939389152564_5333018460978265994_n-1.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/930","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=930"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/930\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":940,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/930\/revisions\/940"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/941"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=930"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=930"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=930"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}