{"id":334,"date":"2020-10-26T21:16:15","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T19:16:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/?p=334"},"modified":"2020-10-26T21:27:40","modified_gmt":"2020-10-26T19:27:40","slug":"svatba-meho-syna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/?p=334","title":{"rendered":"Svatba m\u00e9ho syna"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Jist\u011b nejsem jedin\u00e1 m\u00e1ma, kter\u00e9 se zd\u00e1 velmi podivn\u00e9, \u017ee ten u\u0159van\u00fd chlape\u010dek, kter\u00fd se j\u00ed dr\u017eel za tri\u010dko a nedovolil j\u00ed vyn\u00e9st ko\u0161 s odpadky, je najednou tak n\u011bjak… moc dosp\u011bl\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dvoulet\u00fd Oliver<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Uteklo to jako voda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010clov\u011bk ho u\u010dil chodit, mluvit, zav\u00e1zat si tkani\u010dky…. Asi to zn\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00e1 m\u00e1ma. D\u00edt\u011b se v\u00e1s dr\u017e\u00ed a zuby nehty nechce pustit, kdy\u017e chcete j\u00edt sama na n\u00e1kup nebo s kamar\u00e1dkou na kafe – a d\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo hl\u00eddat. Oliver byl k\u0159ikloun obecn\u00fd. \u0158val, a\u017e n\u00e1m u\u0161i zal\u00e9haly…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rostl jako z vody. V\u0161echno cht\u011bl d\u011blat s\u00e1m, p\u0159esto\u017ee pr\u0165av\u00fd jako pale\u010dek, tou\u017eil d\u011blat v\u011bci dosp\u011bl\u00e9. Kr\u00e1jet, zatloukat, nakupovat. Jednou jsem mu dala pen\u00edze, a\u0165 s\u00e1m dojde pro m\u00e1slo. Byly mu asi \u010dty\u0159i roky. \u010cekala jsem p\u0159ed samoobsluhou. Vyb\u011bhl ven a radostn\u011b t\u0159\u00edmal m\u00e1slo v ruce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

„Ale pan\u00ed mi ho necht\u011bla d\u00e1t,“ p\u0159iznal, „cht\u011bla ty pen\u00edze.“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdo by v tu chv\u00edli p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lel o tom, \u017ee to nebude tak dlouho trvat a ten sam\u00fd chlape\u010dek v\u00e1m \u0159ekne: „Mami, budu se \u017eenit.“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V \u010dlov\u011bku malinko hrkne. \u017denit? To u\u017e je tak dosp\u011bl\u00fd, \u017ee bude s\u00e1m hlavou rodiny? Je to v\u016fbec mo\u017en\u00e9? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nepat\u0159\u00edm mezi matky, kter\u00e9 by d\u011btem do \u017eivota p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mluvily. P\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1m jejich n\u00e1pady, n\u00e1zory a rozhodnut\u00ed. V\u00edm, \u017ee jsou samostatn\u00e9 a nejsou hloup\u00e9. V\u011b\u0159\u00edm jim. Sna\u017e\u00edm se zas\u00e1hnout jen ve chv\u00edli, kdy vid\u00edm, \u017ee se tr\u00e1p\u00ed a pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed mou pomoc. Takov\u00fdch situac\u00ed v\u0161ak zat\u00edm nebylo tolik, abych m\u011bla o sv\u00e9 d\u011bti p\u0159emr\u0161t\u011bn\u00fd strach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oliver se stal velmi brzy samostatn\u00fdm, u\u017e n\u011bkdy ve \u010dtrn\u00e1cti jsem pochopila, \u017ee si jde svou cestou, a nechala jsem ho j\u00edt. Sle\u010dny, kter\u00e9 se m\u00edhaly jeho \u017eivotem, jsem vn\u00edmala s \u00fasm\u011bvem. Nikdy jsem p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 neuva\u017eovala, jestli u\u017e je to „ta posledn\u00ed“, ta, kter\u00e1 vstoup\u00ed do \u017eivota i mn\u011b, proto\u017ee se stane matkou m\u00e9ho vnou\u010dete. A pak se to stalo…. Svatba!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ano, p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1m, \u017ee jsem uronila slzu, ale ne proto, \u017ee bych m\u011bla pocit, \u017ee syna ztr\u00e1c\u00edm, ale proto, \u017ee u\u017e je tak dosp\u011bl\u00fd, tak rozumn\u00fd, \u017ee stoj\u00ed na vlastn\u00ed ob\u011b\u017en\u00e9 dr\u00e1ze a chyst\u00e1 se j\u00edt po n\u00ed ve dvojici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moc si p\u0159eju, aby ta cesta ve dvou byla t\u00edm p\u00e1dem snaz\u0161\u00ed, aby se v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nutnosti podp\u00edrali, aby si v\u011b\u0159ili a u\u017e\u00edvali si ka\u017ed\u00e9ho dne. Carpe diem!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Oliver se svou M\u00ed\u0161ou<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jist\u011b nejsem jedin\u00e1 m\u00e1ma, kter\u00e9 se zd\u00e1 velmi podivn\u00e9, \u017ee ten u\u0159van\u00fd chlape\u010dek, kter\u00fd se j\u00ed dr\u017eel za tri\u010dko a nedovolil j\u00ed vyn\u00e9st ko\u0161...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":340,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/DSC07677.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=334"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":341,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334\/revisions\/341"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petrabraunova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}